Apologies if I haven’t been keeping my blogs up to date.
Making friends is a hit or miss because you don’t know who they really are. And if they want to be your friend or not.
Also, I think its because when you become their friend and then once they leave they change their mind and don’t want to be your friend anymore. So.. say your somewhere, online or real life and you decide to become someones friend, and they accept your friend request or something along the lines of that.
Then once they leave, you realize that they are no longer your friend. You think to yourself.. “Have I done something wrong?” Well, this could mean two things. You were their friend for a few minutes then the next thing you know they are no longer your friend anymore.
The second thing is that don’t blame yourself. Maybe they just wanted to give you a test run as a friend then figure out where to go next. So maybe they didn’t like your personality or maybe you were more of a reserved calm person.
Maybe its the way we act, or something like that. But don’t let that distract you. There are other people out there that are still your friend. Even if you don’t believe it. First impressions are not that easy and it will take courage or confidence to do so.
I think its possible that we are different and people may see us differently too. I’m more quiet and shy and I have a fear of people judging me based on who I am. That’s why I have a hard time meeting people and trying to be their friend as well. I may have said this on one of my previous posts..
Even though I may be wrong on this.. sort of.